The.Older.Man? The other day, a girlfriend of mine told me about her latest boy - well, in this case, the correct terminology is "man." (he`s pushing 30) She says he`s an intellectual, cultured, ambitious, cute, AND black (like herself). BUT (and there usually is a "but") he: a) believes that it`s an intelligent black woman`s duty to produce intelligent black children, b) that they should forego their dreams for the kitchen, c) and that men are, by nature, polygamous. She wanted my take. I told her: Aside from you being 20 & on the verge of starting your life and him being established & lookingfor a woman to reproduce *intelligent* offspring w/ - unless you want to be sharing your bed with Wife #2 & Wife #3, you`d best take yourself (and your eggs) up out of there. Men like this still exist?? Whoa.

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